It is common for some years elapsed couples fall into the habit and stop seducing. That attitude will lead inevitably to failure, because sooner or later one of them will say goodbye. How to deal with this? Speech specialist.
Marriage
is considered by some couples as the ultimate consummation of their
love, the foundation for a family, and an open door to happiness. For others, it's the end of romanticism, and welcome to habituation.If
you handle the latter concept is quite possible that your relationship
is doomed to failure, since the lack of communication result in lack of
sex, and one day you wake up in the same bed with someone who you look
like a complete stranger.
Macarena is secretary and has been married for eight years. Her relationship with her husband defines as good, but admits they have been through very complicated.
'A few years ago I thought we were going to separate, because everything became so boring that I wondered what we were still together. We'd work to watch TV and sleep, we had issues in common and that depressed me 'he says.Furthermore, we note that sexuality became scarce and monotonous. 'As we have a child, everything revolved around him. We both knew that there was no surprises in sex, but I got bored and talked the situation. I told him that we were young and we lived like old, that if we kept it was better not stay married 'he says.Macarena's warning was a warning sign for her husband, and with great maturity decided to recover the courtship."I think it helped that I very front, and although it is terrible to feel that the routine catches us, we have to get out of it even if it costs. Now I call my husband and ask him to come get me to work, we have a drink, go to movies, we do something to allow us to come home happy 'he stresses.Although Macarena was able to overcome the crisis is that many couples do not, because they feel so overwhelmed and tired, you are more comfortable stay as they are, rather than looking for a solution that will return the romance and sexuality .The foremost partnerThe conflict resolution specialist partner, Ricardo Cariaga says that the great mistake made in marriage is neglecting the purpose for which they were married. Firmly says that lovers get married to have fun, and in the way they forget about it and let your interests drift. 'The problem is that one always delayed, and marriage is a matter of priorities. They care about the job, the kids, the house, and the couple left for last, then sex also 'he explains. The practitioner should ask what it is for the money, labor, facilities, if they have a partner to enjoy it. So advises couples to schedule a time for them, where they can get out, communicate, find new sensations in sexuality, because the frequency of sex should depend on what suits you both.'To regain the passion you have to communicate, meet the new expectations of the couple. If talking will know what you want to do the other in sex, and that's what we will not do, because there is no guile ask, 'says the therapist.So explains that even the kids can participate in the priority of a marriage partner is, because otherwise the family collapses. 'There are married together but boring. When people travel out of their way to have fun, never lose sight of the goal of having fun, in couples should be equal, must choose some weekdays for fun ', he concludes.Say goodbye to the routine.
The psychologist Sergio Valencia Vega, highlights the importance of sex in a relationship, because it keeps the relationship through the development of eroticism in sexual expression. Therefore, the lack of passion can affect both men and women, because sex is a natural regulator of anxiety, and their absence could show mood swings, weight, and enhance the mood.
On children, says that until three months of age is recommended to be closer to her mother, after they should have their own room, because a third in bed always interfere in the relationship. It also suggests not lose seduction.
'Some women are very beautiful underwear never exhibited before their partners, and end up standing in pajamas that look like a Teletubi. Moreover, males leave out personal care and acquire an abdomen worth a watermelon contest, and situations are operating to the detriment of the effectiveness seductive in couples' he says.
Therefore recommended to restore a marriage, the bedroom TV out, and use all the tools possible seductive: sexy clothes, candles, scents, romantic music. And if you let your imagination can innovate with aromatic oil massages, bubble baths, erotic costumes, romantic dinners, cell phone text messages or emails insinuating, because anything goes to retrieve the passion of the person you love.In addition, you must put aside these concepts rooted that marriage is boring, only custom and company, because it is not. It is a journey you undertake where passion and flirting should be part of everyday life. If you do not live well and feel bad about it, you should ask for help, try to resume communication with your partner, and strive to be happy, recovering the illusion that he had when he said yes to the altar.
Macarena is secretary and has been married for eight years. Her relationship with her husband defines as good, but admits they have been through very complicated.
'A few years ago I thought we were going to separate, because everything became so boring that I wondered what we were still together. We'd work to watch TV and sleep, we had issues in common and that depressed me 'he says.Furthermore, we note that sexuality became scarce and monotonous. 'As we have a child, everything revolved around him. We both knew that there was no surprises in sex, but I got bored and talked the situation. I told him that we were young and we lived like old, that if we kept it was better not stay married 'he says.Macarena's warning was a warning sign for her husband, and with great maturity decided to recover the courtship."I think it helped that I very front, and although it is terrible to feel that the routine catches us, we have to get out of it even if it costs. Now I call my husband and ask him to come get me to work, we have a drink, go to movies, we do something to allow us to come home happy 'he stresses.Although Macarena was able to overcome the crisis is that many couples do not, because they feel so overwhelmed and tired, you are more comfortable stay as they are, rather than looking for a solution that will return the romance and sexuality .The foremost partnerThe conflict resolution specialist partner, Ricardo Cariaga says that the great mistake made in marriage is neglecting the purpose for which they were married. Firmly says that lovers get married to have fun, and in the way they forget about it and let your interests drift. 'The problem is that one always delayed, and marriage is a matter of priorities. They care about the job, the kids, the house, and the couple left for last, then sex also 'he explains. The practitioner should ask what it is for the money, labor, facilities, if they have a partner to enjoy it. So advises couples to schedule a time for them, where they can get out, communicate, find new sensations in sexuality, because the frequency of sex should depend on what suits you both.'To regain the passion you have to communicate, meet the new expectations of the couple. If talking will know what you want to do the other in sex, and that's what we will not do, because there is no guile ask, 'says the therapist.So explains that even the kids can participate in the priority of a marriage partner is, because otherwise the family collapses. 'There are married together but boring. When people travel out of their way to have fun, never lose sight of the goal of having fun, in couples should be equal, must choose some weekdays for fun ', he concludes.Say goodbye to the routine.
The psychologist Sergio Valencia Vega, highlights the importance of sex in a relationship, because it keeps the relationship through the development of eroticism in sexual expression. Therefore, the lack of passion can affect both men and women, because sex is a natural regulator of anxiety, and their absence could show mood swings, weight, and enhance the mood.
On children, says that until three months of age is recommended to be closer to her mother, after they should have their own room, because a third in bed always interfere in the relationship. It also suggests not lose seduction.
'Some women are very beautiful underwear never exhibited before their partners, and end up standing in pajamas that look like a Teletubi. Moreover, males leave out personal care and acquire an abdomen worth a watermelon contest, and situations are operating to the detriment of the effectiveness seductive in couples' he says.
Therefore recommended to restore a marriage, the bedroom TV out, and use all the tools possible seductive: sexy clothes, candles, scents, romantic music. And if you let your imagination can innovate with aromatic oil massages, bubble baths, erotic costumes, romantic dinners, cell phone text messages or emails insinuating, because anything goes to retrieve the passion of the person you love.In addition, you must put aside these concepts rooted that marriage is boring, only custom and company, because it is not. It is a journey you undertake where passion and flirting should be part of everyday life. If you do not live well and feel bad about it, you should ask for help, try to resume communication with your partner, and strive to be happy, recovering the illusion that he had when he said yes to the altar.
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